We’ve compiled a list of what we feel are the 10 best things to learn if you want to be a phone sex operator.
1. Be creative. Being a phone sex operator is all about creating sexual images in your callers’ heads. Make sure you’re very creative in getting them hot. You have to get them to see and almost feel what you describe. So, think foreplay poetry.
2. Your voice. It’s not enough to say sexual things over the phone. Phone sex operators have to deliver feeling as well. And not just any feeling. You have to be erotic. Very erotic. The inflection in your voice has to insinuate sex. Your callers have to believe you want it too.
3. Sound effects. No explanation needed here. You want your caller to feel as if they’re there with you right? So make the phone call as real as possible. Moan, and create certain sexual sound effects. Be creative. You know what you like to hear during sex. Chances are, they like the same.
4. Your name. Don’t use your real name. Simple as that. No one’s going to be turned on by talking to a guy named “Jason Wisnewski”. You’ll be the most lonely phone sex operator in the business if you use your own name.
5. Create a good alias. The name you do choose should embody sexual emotion. You don’t have to call yourself “Chocolate Thunder” or anything, but your name should be very suggestive. Think of the stage names that strippers use, and go from there. Come on, you know you go to strip clubs.
6. Stay detached. Don’t get caught up in the fantasy you’re providing your callers. Think of it this way, you’re an audio pornstar, nothing more. The people you talk to don’t care about you and you shouldn’t care about them.
7. Down time. Unless you’re a really popular phone sex operator, you’ll spend a lot of time waiting around for calls. Invest in a good TV and a bunch of movies. You may even want to watch a little porn to keep your mindset ready for the phone sex when someone does call.
8. Offer a phone sex threesome. Get your girlfriend to help out. When people call, ask if your lady friend can join in the activity. Who knows, you may be able to lock down repeat customers this way.
9. Background music. Get your callers in the mood. Have some smooth background music playing. Stay away from that porn music. It just sounds corny. Also, make sure the music isn’t too loud. You don’t want it to drown out your moaning and freaky stuff.
10. Make them feel special. Every caller should feel like you only want them. You know, just as well as they know, that it’s all fantasy. If you have repeat callers, you should make the effort to remember them, and what they like. Use a notebook to jot down the important stuff about repeat callers. You know, what they like, their fetishes, stuff like that.