Who Are You? Creating Your Profile

TalkToMe.com provides many opportunities to express yourself and share tantalizing details about your phone sex persona. Creating your profile can at first appear a daunting task.  In this lesson we hope to provide you with some topics to consider when creating your profile that we hope will help you create a profile that is fun and enticing. Profile names cannot be changed, so be creative and sure of your name choice. 

Consider your callers.

When creating your listing, the first thing you need to consider is your audience.  Of all the people who call for erotic phone conversation, which ones do you think you’d enjoy talking with most?

Since you’ll do your best work if you’re having fun, so think of the kind of caller you hope will be on the other end of the line when you take your first call.  Is he a meek, inexperienced boy?  Then maybe you should consider creating a MILF or “sex instruction” profile.  Is he a strong, demanding father figure? Perhaps you’d do best to place a Submissive Female listing, or Spanking.  Decide who you would be interested in talking with, and craft a profile that will attract that type of caller.

Consider your strengths (and weaknesses)

Take a serious look at your strengths and weaknesses.   It will do you no good to create a profile you can’t pull off.  At the same time if you naturally lean towards a specific type of profile it would benefit you to leverage that strength.

If you’ve always been told you have a sweet voice, you’re a natural for Barely Legal or Girl Next Door.  If you’ve got a strong personality, perhaps there’s a Dominatrix lurking within!  If you’re always being told you have a sultry voice, think about Cougar or even Transsexual niches.  If you’re like most people, you probably would be a good match for several categories, so TalkToMe.com allows you to have up to three different profiles at a time.

Going Broad (but not too broad)

Once you’ve narrowed down your category, you need to flesh out your persona.  The trick is finding a balance between general appeal to the average phone sex customer, and providing enough personality so that your listing doesn’t come off as a common cardboard cutout.  You need to convey popular stereotypes, the Ice Princess, the Mean Mistress, the Naughty Schoolgirl, without fading into the background along with all the other cliches competing for callers in your category.   The last thing you wanna be is a boring stock character nobody notices.

So stand out! One way to catch a customer’s eye is with low rates.  Don’t be afraid to seduce potential callers with introductory deals or perhaps special offers of private photos or recordings for first-timers.  Of course, there’s a limit to how low you can go, and fortunately there are other ways to attract customers besides discounted services.

Let’s start with your name.  Obviously you shouldn’t use your real name.  Instead, pick a moniker that expresses your personality as it relates to your listing. TalkToMe.com uses profile numbers not names to identify Phone Sex Operators, but choose a name for your phone persona anyway, to bring it to life and help you connect with that energy.  Including this name in your listing helps create intimacy between you & potential callers.  Also, guys will know what to call you when saying hello for the first time.

Now think about your title, which is listed at the top of every profile page.  Take a look at other profile titles in the same category, and choose something distinctive.  If you see a half dozen “Horny Housewives” or “Sweet Young Things”  then stay away from those words in your own title.  Or play against the norm  “Oversexed Single Mom” or “The Girl Next Door’s Evil Twin.”  Don’t be afraid to use humor or mystery to entice callers, either.  Song lyrics or movie quotes, too, often catch the eye, plus may call to mind very specific associations that can make your profile extra-memorable.

While your title is just a few words,  your description can be as long as you like.  Think of it as your persona’s profile on a dating site.  That is, you want to put your best foot forward and attract all those guys you’ll have a great conversation with, while explaining your services in such a way that callers looking for something else will know not to waste their time (and yours).  Certainly, you want to be busy.  But some callers will be seeking phone conversations outside your comfort/interests/etc and the last thing you want is bad feedback from customers who just aren’t good matches for your services.

So choose your words carefully!  Granted, most guys will be focusing on your photo(s) first,  but describing your persona’s body in explicit detail is often a huge turn-on, so don’t miss out on this opportunity to sell your physical assets.  Detail best features,  hottest outfits, sexiest fantasies… Remember, your profile is not you so you’re free to create an erotic bombshell dripping with sex appeal and fully experiencing the fleshly delights of your chosen category.

Do your research

If you’re not well-versed in your particular niche yet,  for godsakes at least Google  or, better yet, sign up for online communities where you can read exchanges from people sharing & engaging in related activities.  Real people are a terrific resource for the common terms, current jargon, relevant books/movies, and even sometimes minor “celebrities” in the field. Such information will strike a chord with your audience, and help identify you as the real deal, and not just another imposter trying to make a buck.

HotChat.com also provides handy surveys and interview questions to help flesh out your listing even more.  By all means, use them! A full profile indicates to callers that you’re a motivated with a gift for detail, two qualities that make for great adult conversation.  With so many opportunities to develop your profile, you might feel overwhelmed but remember, you don’t need to answer every question at once.  Complete the ones that inspire you most, and as you gain more experience, you’ll have more to share.

Don’t sweat it

Lastly, here’s a secret about online profiles: no one ever reads them word-for-word, from start to finish. People scan photos, then read the first couple lines and the last couple lines, leaving the rest of your profile for after contact’s been established.  So include info you wish to highlight at the beginning and end of your listing, where browsing customers are most likely to notice it.  Along the same lines, when in doubt about sharing something, stick it in the middle of your profile to limit its influence.  Nothing is ever written in stone, you can always go back & add, delete or edit your text.  Don’t be afraid to experiment with different approaches, if one doesn’t seem to be bringing the desired business, try another tack.

Keep enthusiastic about your business, informed about your customer’s interests, and inspired by the good vibrations your lovely voice is cultivating. Good luck!